Friday Thoughts And A Shave

Headlines screamed about a flashy gambling scandal, but we weren’t buying the outrage. Instead, we turned the mic toward something personal and practical: the day we chose to stop hiding hair loss and start living bald on purpose. From the last clumps in the shower to a no-nonsense barbershop shave and an unremarkable lunch in public, this is a grounded look at confidence, not a self-help monologue. No melodrama, no pity—just honest steps, clean lines, and a lighter head.

We share why empty scandal bait fails to earn our attention, especially when bigger harms deserve the spotlight. Then we walk through the real decision points of alopecia: taking hard photos, trusting instincts, picking a barber who executes, and discovering that strangers mostly don’t care—liberating proof that much of the fear is a mirror-made story. Wigs get a reset, too: wear them for joy, not survival. That spirit launched The Bald Icon, a space to normalize bald beauty without turning it into a crisis.

If you’re teetering between one more cover-up and a fresh start, you’ll find practical tips, hard-won perspective, and a few laughs about expectations versus reality. We close with a simple prompt to get you talking and remembering the journeys that shaped you. Hit play, share with someone who needs a nudge toward self-trust, and tell us your take. If this conversation helped you breathe easier, follow the show, leave a quick review, and send this to a friend who’s ready to choose clarity over camouflage.

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Chapters

• 0:29 Friday Opener And News Frustration
• 0:50 Mafia Gambling Story Dismissed
• 1:49 Shift To Real Priorities
• 4:13 Skimming Headlines And Tapping Out
• 5:13 Introducing The Bald Icon Project
• 7:25 The Decision To Shave
• 8:54 At The Barber: Action And Aftermath
• 10:25 Public Reactions And Confidence
• 12:31 Against Alopecia Melodrama

Transcript

SPEAKER_00: 0:15

Well, hello and good morning. It's Friday. We made it through the week. Hallelujah. Thank you. All right. Well, uh, I'm sorry, but I searched and searched and searched this morning through the New York Post app, and I just couldn't find anything to talk about worthwhile. It's all a bunch of crap, is what it is. Now, the big story all over the New York app and the New York Post app is the uh gambling ring with the mafia and the NBA players and coaches that Cash Bertel has found out and exposed, and he is just so proud of himself for that. Held a press conference yesterday. I missed it. I was at work and doing other things, but I caught a little bit of highlights here and there. And I'm like, I don't care. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't care about a bunch of millionaires going out, spending their money, getting scammed by con artists, and this whole big setup with the cheating and the bringing in. Look, if you want to go do that with your money and you know it's not right, because you know it's illegal, but you're gonna do it anyway. Go spend your money and go pla go gamble with these players and millionaires, that's on you. I don't I think the FBI has more nefarious things they should go after. How about child sex traffickers? How about that? Now, yes, I believe the mafia was involved, and I don't know if drugs were involved or not. I don't know. But look, they're playing cards, they're gambling, yes, they're getting scammed, yes, it's a big, huge cheating thing, but I don't care. That's not my world. My world is everything else, I think. Not everything else, but how about protecting children? How what happened to all the kids you were gonna go after and find? I mean, I know that's on Tom Homan, which we haven't heard from in a while, have we? Um where's all the 300,000 children that you were gonna go after and find? Where are they? Where's all the sex child sex traffickers? Where are they? Do that. I don't care about some basketball players and some coaches and millionaires spending their money getting cheated on these cheating scams, gambling, playing poker and cards or blackjack or whatever they're playing. I don't care. All right, we need to move on. And look, I have nothing to talk about. I I really have nothing to talk about. Some of these headlines on the New York app are just pointless. Let's go over here and I'll read a couple of headlines to you that uh I've scanned over and I'm like, nope, don't want to talk about that. Nope, don't want to talk about that. Uh, it's just a lot of crap. A lot of crap, a lot of crap. No, I'm not gonna read anything to you. Oh, here's a couple. I'll read these three. Uh video captures big rig driven by illegal immigrant ploughing into vehicle on California freeway, killing three. We talked they talked about that yesterday all over the news. Bikini clad influencer caught after manhunt over allegedly running drug trafficking ring. I don't care. White House officials suggest married ex cop rep posted half naked photos on grinder. What is the White House having to do officials having to do with an ex married cop and naked photos on grinder? I don't care. What is what I think people are just desperate to tie something to the White House and Donald Trump. This is getting ridiculous. I uh you know, I don't care about an ex-cop and nude photos on grinder. I don't care. Alright, I'm sorry, and then I thought about reading some Dear Abbies to you, and those are just ridiculous too. So instead, what is weighing on my heart right now this morning, I guess I'll talk to you about. I really don't want to, but I will, is I was scrolling through Instagram as well, and there was a I I've started a new account on Instagram, by the way, called the Bald Icon, where I am talking about baldness, me being bald, uh alopecia, excuse me, but in a more confident way, because I see way too many, and I'm sorry guys, I know that I have a lot of guys listening. I'm sorry. This is may probably more of a girl topic than a guy topic, but here we go. If you want to tune out, I understand. So I started a new Instagram account, like I said, trying to be more uh positive about the hair loss for women because I have seen way too many women, a lot of them, who go through hair loss and it's so traumatic dra traumatic for them that some of them I read this one woman said she didn't let her husband see her without her wig for four years. Y'all. Now I understand I understand for some most women, I'll say most women, I guess losing hair is tr is very traumatic. But I don't know why. It doesn't need to be. Now I remember when I had hair and my hair was falling out. I suppose I remember feeling a little weird about it, sure, but I was able to still put my hair in a ponytail, hide the bald spots until I couldn't anymore. And then I was kind of backed into a corner and I had to make a decision. Do I try to keep this and just wear wigs all the time? My my instinct, natural automatic instinct was no, I don't want to do that. And I don't listen to myself enough either, by the way. But I have started to listen to myself by natur my instincts. And so I finally, I guess I'd had enough of my hair, and I finally told my husband, I that's it, I'm done. Because I was in the bathroom and I was in the shower, and there was hair falling out all the time. And it means I'd taken pictures of myself finally, was able to take pictures of my bald head from a you know around the whole area, and I saw it in pictures, and I thought, that is it. That's it. I'm shaving it off. What's gonna happen? I can't go on like this. This is ridiculous. And so I told him, I said, that's it, I'm gonna buy you a shaver and you're gonna shave my hair off for me. And he's like, No, I'm not gonna do that. Let's let a professional do it. Let's go to the barber and let him do it. Now, my husband was all for it, he was very supportive. I have the most supportive husband, I think, ever. Because I understand some husbands would not go for that, and I I trust me, I have stories about that. But anyway, um, so we go to the barber. I take a hat with me too, just in case I walk out and just in case it shaves off, and I he shaves it off, and I'm like, oh, traumatic, I can't take it all. I have a hat to wear. So we're sitting there in the waiting area, waiting for our turn, and finally the chair opens up, and it's the owner of the barber shop, and he's like, All right, he looks at my husband, he said, All right, let's who's next. And I'm the one that gets up and sits in the chair, and he kind of looks surprised for a second, and he says, Well, what are we doing here? And I took off my hat and I showed him all the boss spots. I said, I just want this shaved off. And you know what he did? He said, Okay, took out his thing and started shaving. Now, if I had gone to a beauty parlor and requested that, they would have said, Are you sure, honey? Are you sure you want to do that? I don't know. I don't they they'd make such a big frickin' deal over it, and they would be hesitant to do it. So that's why I love the barbers. That's why I love this barber. Because he didn't hesitate. He did not hesitate. He just said, Okay, and went to it. Now he didn't, he kept my back to the mirror until it was all said and done. And so when it was done, he turned me around, and my first automatic reaction was, Oh, that's not too bad. It's not bad. I don't look too bad. I look okay. And so we went out to lunch immediately afterwards uh to a restaurant, and I did not wear my hat in. And guess what? No one burst into flames, no one fainted, no one got up out of their booth and ran out of the restaurant yelling and hollering, Oh my god, there's a bald woman in the restaurant. Nothing like that happened. No one even noticed. And why would they, especially in today's world where you see men out here wearing dresses and wigs and makeup and fake large prosthetic boobs and trying to be women or the opposite women trying to be men? I mean, there's a lot more going on. Nobody's gonna notice your freaking bald head, okay? And I there was this one, there's so many women on here that I see online on these social media apps who have alopecia and they're putting on wigs and they're showing you what you look like with you know what they look like with wigs. And I keep wanting to say so badly, you look so much more beautiful without the wig. Now they look good with the wig too, don't get me wrong, but they're just stunning without it. So I'm gonna think I'm gonna start one where I because they show them being bald and then later having the wig on. I think I'm gonna do the opposite. I think I'm gonna have the wig on and then take it off, do a reveal like that. But anyway, I know I've gone on and on and on. I would really like to be an advocate for alopecia and dealing with it without all the drama around it. I was watching one Instagram reel today, this morning, about this young woman who has alopecia, and she was in front of the camera, bald, beautiful, but she was spieling all of this psycho babble crap about how it's life-altering, life-changing, and you need to surround yourself with safe people and be good to yourself and talk these good like shut up, lady. It's hair. It's it's not like life-altering would be having cancer. Life altering would be having a car accident and having your leg amputated. Life altering is coming back from war and having to deal with pe that's life altering. Losing your hair, I'm sorry, is not life-altering. It's not all right, I gotta go. I'm sorry, I rambled on and on. Actually, we need to have the question of the day. I would actually be a terrible advocate for alopecia because I would just say get over it. And yes, I know I have uh gone through several wigs myself, but I look at the wig wearing now as like an accessory, like shoes or a handbag. I really prefer myself just without a wig. But there's one wig that I do have that I really, really like, but I'd rather just go out bald. Okay, I'm sorry. Thank you for letting me be this like little sounding board this morning. Alright, question of the day, I promise this time. Okay, what is the furthest, farthest, furthest or farthest you have driven on a road trip? Obviously, I go from Alabama to Ohio a lot. Um I think that's probably the furthest I've driven I've ever driven. I'm sure well, no, when I was younger with my mama and papa when I was a kid, and we traveled during the summertime while they did their um they did their uh mall exhibits and my grandpa, my papa did like woodworking and they would go during the summer and do all that stuff. We traveled that way. But as far as me driving myself, it would be to here to Ohio or West Virginia, not here, but maybe um I don't know. I've really not driven that far. Now I've been to California, but I don't think I've ever driven out there. I have flown, but not driven. So the question is, what's the farthest you have driven on a road trip? Forgive me if I didn't say all that correctly. Um, there was something else I wanted to say too, but I have it has escaped me. And it had something to do with driving and road trips, but now I've forgotten. Okay. I am just scattered all over the place today. I don't know what's wrong with me. I guess I'm just excited it's Friday. All right, thanks for listening to me ramble on and on. My goodness gracious. Not not much longer to go, only 70 more episodes. All right. I'll be back on Monday, hopefully. Hopefully, the gentleman I will remember to do one on Sunday for Brood Awakening. All right, thanks for listening. Bye.